I have a lowkey crush on one of my classmates. She's really sweet and one of the two other people that show up to our class early. She's also a lot shorter than me and I have a thing for girls who are either way taller or shorter than me
Crush well...no but my crush did end up becoming my boyfriend which was pretty awesome though my best friend had to push me into it...argh...love her for it though! I know a couple of people in friendship group that have crushes and they all either refuse to say the name around other people or they actually have nicknames for their crush
I'm all about that height difference too, one of my inexplicable draws. Of my two favorite ex-girlfriends, one was like 4'11" and the other was 6'1" (the same height as me), except she likes to wear platform shoes and be almost 7 feet tall. If anyone out there has a girl-cousin in her 20s and is like 6'6" tell her to get into these DMs. Except don't, because I'm not about that long-distance lifestyle. I think I might have one, and it's against my will. I noticed maybe a week ago or so when picking out what to wear to work that I was wondering if a particular coworker would be there that day. And the same thing again the next day, while setting my hair. Eventually I'm like "damn, I'm stuck now" and it's generally going to be a bad idea to progress down that path, what with her being a coworker and all (even if it is maybe mutual). So, I effectively have two options: find a new crush or find a new flame. Both of those are pretty hard, so I'm stuck for a while, crushed.
had a gigantic crush on my current bf for about two months before i got the courage to tell him on the special date of 26 september so no, am quite happy :}
Do you two mean you're ace or aro? Because I'm ace and I've still had crushes on people. I don't think I have a crush at the moment, though I'm certainly having some strong feelings towards a girl in my history class.
I also have tendencies towards feeling asexual while having romantic feelings. Lately I’ve discovered that I value platonic affection much more than romantic affection which makes me nervous? for some reason but I have my whole life to figure out my orientation so I try not to dwell on it too much. I don’t have a crush on anyone at the moment, but a boy had a crush on me and it was very awkward because I only considered him a friend.
I've got a crush, and it's kinda annoying. I only noticed that I like him because he used to have long hair, almost shoulder length, and I really liked how it looked, and then he cut it and I realized that I just really liked how he looks, and it's only gotten worse from there. I am, like, obsessed with trying to make friends with this guy and actually getting to know him. The only problem is that I rarely see him, let alone have a chance to talk to him...oh, and the fact that I have social anxiety doesn't really help. (what also doesn't help is that I don't really have somebody to talk to for advice. I have nine siblings, one of them is in a relationship with someone they met online, one of them is ace, and the other seven have shown no interest in this kind of thing at this point, so I'm kinda at a loss.)
I don't think I have any at the moment. I don't crush on people much tbh, or maybe I do and I just don't notice it. Haha
An update: It might be a stretch to call this a crush. Maybe I’m just lonely. But my neighbor next door—one of two twins—is incredibly kind and polite and attractive, and also pretty social and popular. I went over to introduce myself and he talked to me for like ten minutes about myself and how I’d moved in. He said he’d wanted to say hi and never got around to it, but that he was glad he met me and that he’d say hi if he ever saw me in the hallways since we don’t have any classes together. I probably shouldn’t expect anything. But part of me really hopes that we’ll become good friends and I’ll get to know him a little better. I guess I’m a little more introverted than he is and I don’t really go to the same parties that he does. But we’re neighbors, so that’s a start.
