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Judgmental people

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by BiohazardSr, Dec 23, 2015.

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  1. BiohazardSr

    BiohazardSr My name is Sid. Sid the Bard

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    Would you call yourself a judgemental person? If so, how harsh of a judge are you? If not, then why are you against it? Are your friends judging people? Do you like/hate judgemental people? And how would you rate thus post from 1-10?
     
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  2. Absolute Zero

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    I can't stand judgmental people. I mean, you can just tell before they even open their mouth. It's like something in the way they walk and you can see "oh, you're one of those people".

    Pfth. Judgmental people, amirite?

    Anyhow, I think I'm an unusual kind of judgmental. I observe people: the way they dress, walk, talk, all that, and try to make guesses about them. The thing is, I don't act on those guesses. I treat everyone tabula rasa even though I can look and think "the way you're glancing all over the place tell me you want someone specific to notice you, your particular slouch tells me you probably don't have much self-confidence, and your crazy hairstyle and super-kewl impractical way of lacing your shoes tells me you're dreadfully boring to talk to, and when you do talk you speak so loud I think you want to be interesting and important. But I'll just keep all that in my head and treat you like any other perfect stranger." So maybe I am judgmental, but at least I don't act on it and prejudge.

    And I rate your post 3/10. I would have said 8/10, but you lose credit for either misspelling "this" or misusing "thus". (Hey, you asked, and I never printed up a rubric, so I can grade however I like.)
     
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  3. ✯Ho-OhLugia✯

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    I'm afraid of judgement actually. Wherever you go, there will be unfair people judging you based on irrelevant things such as 'fashion', clothing, personality, the way you speak/act and appearance. Everybody has their own story. Here and there, there are some people who will think: "This person isn't popular because they like [whatever]", or will socially exclude you based on who you are. I dislike it when people judge others, it may cause a fear of walking out in public.

    And what makes people so important that they can rate people based on the little things? Aren't we all equal and as good as each other? I do not judge people. If I see people act unusually, I'd believe that there would be an understandable reason why. You can't just say that somebody is a bad person because they don't act like everybody else.

    As for this topic, I believe this is a great topic to discuss social issue in today's unpleasant world.
     
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  4. Maantijger

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    This. I'm super quick to judge people on appearance and attitude, but I never treat them any differently than I would've someone else. My view of a person can also change on a dime when I interact with for the first time. For example, if someone has a really douchy attitude and seems like an ass comes up to me and greets me nicely or engages in a friendly conversation I'll think they're cool people, despite of what I thought about them before. People who judge based on race, sex or sexuality are disgusting to me though >_>
     
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  5. Eru Iluvatar

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    I judge people very quickly but I always make sure I've kept my mind open. Outward appearances are often deceiving and I'd rather know someone to dislike them. That said, I do judge people and it's hard to deny that I do treat people differently because of it, at least subconsciously. That is human, we all do it, often unintentionally. Nobody can be 100% non-judgemental, nor should they be. It's human nature to look out for yourself and if I were to meet a two hundred pound buff man with skull tattoos and a girl more fake than Stevie Wonder's Miss Universe excuses, I'd keep my distance!

    I'm not very harsh on your silly grammar thus you get a rating of 8/10!
     
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  6. Almandine-G

    Almandine-G All Men Are Equal

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    I've never really been fussed on judging people in the way most do nowadays. You are what you are, so what good is it to make judgements on a person for being abnormal or unusual?

    Now, I do judge people, but not in the sense of planning to treat them differently or anything. I'm more similar to [member='Zero Sifr'] as respects that: I may see something about you that I'll create judgements on, but I'm not gonna treat you any differently to any other stranger I'd meet. For all I know, the person wearing a hairstyle I find really annoying could actually be super cool.

    However a lot of people do take judging too far. Speaking from experience, where I was judged for years for acting unusual, never participating in seasonal celebrations, and being too darn innocent, when that happens, things just aren't nice.

    In other words? Never judge someone, regardless of if they swear, if they dress unusually, or if they don't participate in certain celebrations.

    Pffft I've seen much much worse grammar on the internet, the grammar on this is easily glossed over. Give it a 9.9/10 (hey, nothing's perfect ;) )
     
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  7. 8542Madness

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    Well, seems like I'm the odd one out here.

    I'm incredibly judging. I will mentally record everything about people and use that to analyze them as deeply as I can. I will then act upon my judgements, and I will scoff at any comments of "don't judge" tossed my way. I wouldn't have made it as far as I have in life if I wasn't as strong of a judge of people as I am.

    I'm not unfair, however. I'm not going to avoid or demean anyone who has any negative traits. Everyone has ups and down about them, me included. I'm going to be aware of everyone's flaws, but I'm not going to hold it against them unreasonably. I'm much more likely to respond to people's positive traits, anyway.
     
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  8. Sylar

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    i loathe judgemental people, especially when it comes to appareance​
    people who not give you a chance because you may look different than them on the outside​
    like your jeans is not cool enough or your purse or your coat​
    or even; you do not wear enough make up​
    disgusting
     
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  9. Wizard

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    I tend to judge people a little bit at first, but I think that's human nature, and I don't really think I'm a negatively "judgemental" person, I just try and figure out for myself what they are like. If somebody does something I don't like, though, I won't tell them! That's rude! I'll only tell somebody something if it will help them, just quick little things.

    Also, I know some overly judgemental people, and I don't really like them for the most part. And this thread gets a 7.8/10 because too much water.
     
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