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Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by Junkrat, Dec 31, 2018.

  1. Junkrat

    Junkrat Demolitions Expert

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    Reflect on your 2018. Was it good? Bad? What made it that way? What will you do in 2019 that won’t make it a repeat of last year? Dump it all here. There’s no turning back.

    2018 was a good year for me overall. My mental health made tremendous leaps and bounds. I started working on myself and getting to know me. I got back into interests previously lost by depression and other mental illnesses. I found solace in solitude. I found happiness in the mundane.

    I made all sorts of new friends and connections, ones that I am thankful for. It was a busy year. A tough year. But it was a happy year, too. So thank you, 2018. Thank you for treating me well.
     
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  2. Wings

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    2018 was a really rough year for me, but I’m proud that I made it through. I was diagnosed with anxiety/depression and had to move cross country for my dad’s job, which kind of dampened the mood of the year for me. Nevertheless some really great things happened! I got back into art, and little by little I’m starting to get back into classical literature also. I posted a fanfiction which I adore writing, and I’ve made some new friends. On top of that, I’m now an LV mentor which I feel really good about.

    In the New Year I want to keep spreading kindness and positivity more often. It may sound simple but I’ve found that filtering of my negative thoughts can help alter my mindset into a more productive and happy one.
     
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  3. Dawn

    Dawn La vie est drôle

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    2018 has been...a year. I've had better (2010-12) but I have had significantly worse (2014-16, 2016 in particular was the worst year of my life so far) and I feel that it's been a year of reflection and adjustment than it has of big dramatic change; that was 2017. I've been getting used to my job, planning grander things - some of which I would very much like to put into motion in 2019 if I am able - and trying to maintain the status quo and maybe improve on it in small, gradual ways. There was a lot of self-discovery and self-analysis last year, and whilst I have no idea whether the positives outweigh the negatives, that I am NOT sure of this is a very good sign, because I am the most pessimistic and cynical person I know of.

    The summer was awful. AWFUL. That is one thing I will not forget anytime soon, unless 2019 outdoes it...which I pray it doesn't. Six weeks of temperatures in the mid to high 20s without a single drop of rain...save the tears of frustration and exhaustion shed by me as I suffer from headaches, nausea, and insomnia significantly worse than what I am used to. I did not enjoy summer.

    What will I do in 2019 to avoid repetition? Honestly, I can't answer this until March/April, because that is when my health is being reassessed for benefits, and also when my pay for my job is due to see a substantial increase. Which way they both go will determine my life moving forward for the rest of the year, really. There is the possibility that I will be facing things by myself for the first time in 6 years again, so that could be a pretty big, scary change. Or I could go the other way and receive additional support to see if I can address my health concerns in another fashion. Either way, things will change.

    2019 is a blank to me right now, and I'm content to let it be for the moment. I have appointments next week to discuss things, so I'll see how those go and roll with it from there.
     
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  4. Azazel

    Azazel Better count your blessings

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    I was in the hospital 3 times for attempted suicide.

    So you can guess.
     
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    it's been good! i still suffer from anxiety but it is more selective and much better than before thanks to the medication/relaxants i've started taking. =) managed to amass quite a bit of money in my savings throughout 2018 as well, which i am quite proud of. also adopted a new kitten who is very important to me. but the most precious thing is the new relationship i formed in late september with an amazingly kind and loyal guy who also shares similar interests to me. it is the highlight of my year by a long shot. <3 am quite hopeful for 2019!
     
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  6. SawstheSawsbuck

    SawstheSawsbuck Sir Sawsbuck

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    Super super late but 2018 was a rollercoaster
    Had my first breakup February 13th, was horribly depressed from then until June when I met my second bf, became a furry in April and discovered how happy my sona made me and others, graduated in May, turned 18 in September, got my first job in October
     
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    2018 was all over the place for me, but it was a big improvement over what came before. I got bullied more, lost my cat, made more friends, opened up on Internet communities like this one, and finally improved my self esteem. If I had to the ability to change anything, I wouldn’t have gotten my hopes up on people who didn’t reciprocate my feelings. Could’ve saved a lot of energy that way.
     
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