No I did not just propose to the entire forum xD How do you feel about marriage? Do you hope to get married yourself some day? Would you be the one doing the asking, or would you prefer your significant other to ask you? Got a dream wedding or honeymoon in the back of your head just waiting to be realised?
obviously. XD Honestly, I'm fine either way. While I would love to be married, I'm content either way. Would prefer to do the asking (though, knowing me, I'd totally flub it... XD), but again, am fine either way.
Alright. Here comes the other side of me that I don't care to let others see. In my opinion, marriage is the strongest bond between two humans, besides a child or a blood relationship. And so, if you were to get married, wait until for sure you know that you would really be willing to die for and/or with each other. As for myself, as an antisocial bookwriter, I have no plans on finding someone for myself, especially with how complicated it can be and the few amount of emotions I can feel towards other people. But if I were to be married, like a true gentleman, I would ask first myself. The man us supposed to ask the lady, since, well, it's a sign of good manners and open emotions in my family. But other than that, no plans whatsoever. I don't really look for a relationship in others. Just a nice chat, hopefully some friendly bonding, and nothing more.
I'm currently unsure on the matter, however with my bf's religion marriage is a bit important (unsure if he cares on that or not..but his parents do). I probably won't do the proposing, lol.. I don't really care on weddings, but if one did happen I'd like it to be small with close family/friends..and at least have the rings have a hidden video game theme to it (hidden Pokéball, engraved triforce, something). lol
I'm aromantic so I'm not interested in the slightest. But me and my friends always joke about my wedding plans. My wedding would be a wonderful disaster. My wedding band would be people playing otamatones and my ringbearer would be a furby. If you're okay with that, lets get married, Dawn!
Yes, definitely. =) If I've spent a considerable amount of time with my significant other I'd like us both to commit to that further. Marriage isn't just good for romantic reasons but convenience as well, since it comes with so many benefits to both sides. Tax breaks, visas if you're residents of different countries like my SO and I are, inheritance rights, etc can all be very helpful. It's important to view things from a practical standpoint; people who say you don't need to get married to show someone how much you love them don't understand how much easier and less stressful life would become through marriage.
Yes, yes, a thousand times yes! I plan to get married. Eventually. But not now. I just want to make sure everything is right first, and so far it's just not there. I'm convinced, however, that there's an alternate universe that diverges from this one not so long ago in which I am married, because my life almost took a different turn for that direction. And since I am the boy half of what my marriage will eventually be, I'm almost definitely the one to do the asking. For the wedding, I'd prefer to elope. I don't want to spend several thousand dollars on a party that lasts one day: I'd rather go on a vacation with a few friends (one of whom can be the minister for the ceremony, perhaps plus one best man and maid of honor each), after which me and waifu proceed to the honeymoon while everyone else goes home. The specifics can wait: but that's the plan so far.
I definitely plan to get married someday. While I may have only been on a few dates my whole life, I expect that college will be when I start dating a lot. I will only commit when I'm sure, though. Marriage is no easy choice, and voiding it is a horrible process. That being said, I want to be married, when it happens is a different story.
I really want to be married someday...even though I've never dated a person in my life. I just like the thought of being the most important someone in a person's life, and having them be the most important someone in my life. I'd probably want him to be the one to propose though, because I would get really anxious and probably lose the capability of wording my thoughts the way that I would want to, and it would just be a disaster. As much as I want a marriage, I don't think I actually want a wedding. At least not a big one. The few wedding ceremonies that I've been to have left me feeling anxious and confused because I don't entirely understand the religious traditions and symbolism that's going on, and I really don't want to be anxious on my wedding day. And throwing a huge reception afterwards where everybody's attention will be on me and my husband?...Yeah, I'll pass. Definitely a low-key wedding for me.
Yes Dawn, I will marry you! xd I’m not the most romantic (or social) of people, heck I barely talk to any people of the opposite gender. So marriage probably isn’t for me.
I already have someone(my bf) in my mind~♡ But, if thats the case till I reach the proper age, I'll go for love marriage. After asking my parents, ofcourse! I even have my wedding clothes planned~
Sure @Dawn I'll marry you! You're single right? I am a bachelor living alone after all! I already have an idea for our honeymoon! How does Bora Bora or Tahiti sound? I'd love to be married and have a wife/family! I'm not actively searching for someone to date/marry and feel like it's something that just comes along eventually. A lot of my friends and high school classmates are already married in their early twenties as if it's some sort of requirement...I don't see it. I have no desire to get married ASAP simply because of peer pressure. I'll do it with the right person, whether I am 25 or 55. As for proposal, to me it wouldn't matter. She could propose for all I care...I mean, it's 2018 and almost 2019. Considering all the modern liberalism, it's not the strangest thing to happen. Wedding-wise, I'd probably leave that up to my fiancee. Personally it's more about the people attending and the significance of the ceremony than the scale and location. I'd much rather it be us two plus our closest friends and family in a quiet ceremony....maybe by the beaches or mountainside than some grand place in a church where there's like 500 attending, half of whom I'd barely even know or met just once. Honeymoon I'd take her somewhere warm with beaches. Bora Bora, Hawaii, Tahiti, Aruba. I'd also have us both invite a few other closest friends with us too. We'd want to have a good time with other people too, not have a week or two alone to just ourselves. There's plenty of time for that! So maybe we'll all spend a week together doing awesome stuff and then have another week to ourselves kind of thing
Y'know, if I had the money and the resources, I'd actually love a Team Rocket themed wedding. Have you ever heard the Team Rocket motto played on a church organ? It's AMAZING. We could have Team Rocket themed wedding vows ("To protect our love from devastation!" "To unite ourselves in jubilation!" "To denounce our quarrels in sickness and health!" "To prioritise our love in poverty or wealth!" "Dawn!" "[name redacted]!" "Our wedding's today, the party's tonight!" "Bring us a gift or prepare to fight!" then the priest in the Meowth costume says "You're married! That's right!" and that's the end of it. xD) and every guest would have to come dressed either as a Team Rocket grunt or in Pokémon-themed cosplay. Then we could escape in a dramatic pyrotechnic explosion onto a Meowth-head balloon. ...seriously, I've had that in my head for YEARS. Since I was...sixteen? Younger than that, maybe. xD
I'm fine with marriage, and I do kinda hope to get married some day. I don't want an actual wedding, but whenever I do think about myself having one its always me with either a girl or someone who is nb in a wedding dress, even tho im attracted to guys too
I really want to get married some day. I'm also actively searching for someone to be my significant other because I know that once I get out of university (in 6-10 years because of fudging Phd's), my only option will be online dating sites especially if I get a job in astronomy as half those jobs are literally in the middle of nowhere. I define marriage in a different way than most, I don't see it as a relationship of love, I see it more as a promise to live the rest of our lives together. Its often said that you fall in love with you significant other multiple times in a marriage so I'm not looking for someone who I love, I'm looking for someone I can spend the rest of my life with. Honestly, I would propose to my significant other simply by saying, "hey, what are your interests in marriage." Like I said above, I'm not looking to spend my life with someone and I want it to be a calm and rational decision rather than a spontaneous decision only fueled by emotions that wear off. Though I would do a romantic proposal sometime afterwards. If I was to have a wedding, I would want it to be small. I've never been able to handle any large group of people, and because of that, I don't have a lot of people to bring to a wedding anyways. Other than that, I don't have anything else for a wedding plan.
I would only consider marrying someone if I had dated them for at least a few years. Marriage is a big commitment and it’s something I don’t want to regret later. Whether I and the other person could handle each other’s flaws is another factor. Disagreements are perfectly normal, but they can be harmful to a marriage if they are frequent.
Ahem! Correction please. Me about a year ago and me today have a different thought about marriage. Yes. Tbh, I don't think I'll ever marry someone. Anyone. Idk why but I feel like it. I don't think it will ever be me walking down the aisle.
